As a hockey fan reading the faux outrage of fans when their guy is hit in the head is infuriating.
And it can be particuarlly infuriating if your team's player accidentally hit the guy in the head and got penalized and it was an accident.
So I want to explain my outrage about hits to the head.
A friend of mine got caught in the cross fire of my outrage.
In 1996 I got a concussion. It was a stupid accident. I slipped and fell on the ice while walking around Brown University.
I went to the emergency room that night, and there was nothing wrong. The next morning things were wrong. The world was spinning. I couldn't move from my room to the bathroom. The Brown EMT had to carry me in a stretcher, all 260 pounds, to a local emergency room. There the doctor's x-rayed my head, did an MRI and told me that basically I had a brain bruise and the prognosis was uncertain. It might go away in 4-6 weeks and it might not.
The next day, I was in a complete funk. Thinking was impossible. I would sit in my dorm room and stare at the ceiling. I couldn't play computer games. I couldn't read. I couldn't walk without taking anti-nausea drugs. The doctor's were nice, but helpless.
I needed to get my degree or else I couldn't get my visa and then I had to back to Greece. And their idea of help was "patience".
Thank God I had already gotten a job offer that I had accepted. Because I couldn't answer my name straight, never mind do an interview. My employer, when I told them I got a concussion, freaked out. They were wondering did they hire damaged goods? Thank goodness there are laws and decent human beings out there. But I could imagine a different employer with different laws who would have taken the offer back. After all, they hired my brain and the prognosis was uncertain.
Meanwhile I still needed a degree because without the degree I don't get the H1B. And I can't think.
I've met another woman who had a severe concussion. And her boyfriend and friends were confused how this woman who had an MBA from Harvard after 6 months couldn't work. There is a temptation to look at people with concussions with a sense of disbelief. That it can't be that bad.
It is. It's that bad. Everything that is special about you as an intelligent human being is taken from you. You stop being special. You stop being you. And you have no idea when it's going to get better or if it will get better.
I was lucky. My concussion got better in time for me to pass a class I needed to pass to graduate with a Bachelor's in Computer Science from Brown University. And by pass, I mean the professor was gracious enough to give me a passing grade even though I got 23% on the final. Basically she valued my pre-concussion work higher than my post concussion work.
But for the next year, I was sensisitive to not getting enough sleep, to even marginal hits to the head...
In my universe, any hit to the head is a potential life destroying event for the victim. And I get in a sport like hockey accidents happen. We let people drive even though accidents happen. But when an accident happens we still punish people because we acknowledge that it's not okay to kill or maim someoen.
I want to applaud Mr. Shannahan for his willingness to change the sport. Hits to the head are never okay. And even if it's an accident it was still not okay. The hitter must always be thinking, always, am I risking a hit to the head, just a little bit? And if I am, then I change my decision. Does that mean my team might lose the game, yes but there are more important things than winning a game.
And obviously, accidents happen. And we punish those less severely than willful hits, but we still punish them.
Every single NHL pundit, or fan or player who says: it was a hockey play when a player gets hit in the head thinks its okay to destroy a human being. And as far as I am concerned that makes me think a little bit less of them.
We need to change our views in society about hits to the head.
Damien Cox said it best, in my mind, said it best:
I'm still not sure this was a clear heat shot or a hit to the head as a principal point of contact.
What it was, however, was a hit on a vulnerable player and one that caused severe head injury. In an era where we're starting to understand the gravity of these head injuries and their long-term effects, this was a decision that basically said you can't go out and hurt a guy and inflict a brain injury just because the opportunity is there or because somebody gave that player a suicide pass.
That's old school thinking. New school thinking is that Gryba didn't have to make that hit, that he had options - how about going for the puck? - and elected to make the choice that simply isn't good for the game even if it was once seen as the correct course of action.